Master suggested that I make a section of this site about those big lessons I have learned over the years.  They have really been moments of clarity for me and for some other people as well.  I hope you find the words helpful as you make the journey too. 

Let me add one disclaimer here... I am a submissive so I will tend to give advice to my fellow submissives more than to the tops I know. But don't believe if you are a top that there isn't stuff you can't take with you too. I will just beg your pardon that I must write it from the subs point of view.