How to Raise a Disobedient Submissive

I found this on FetLife posted by a man named ChocolateLion it goes as follows:

I came across this and while it is meant to be humorous, it is food for thought.

Submissives, by nature, wish to please their Dominants. It's an integral part of being a submissive. Sometimes, though, Dominants seem not to really want obedient submissives by the mere fact that the do the following things. So, Dom's if you are having a difficult time getting your submissive to disobey and act-out here are some helpful hints:

  1. Always Be Inconsistent One of the first things you can do to confuse and disorient your submissive is to constantly change the rules. If yesterday they had to ask to sit on the furniture, then don't make them ask today. Now, tomorrow when they don't ask, be sure to punish them strictly! Or better yet, tell them one thing, then turn around and tell them something different. Either tell them when their rules are changing or leave them to guess. Just letting them guess as to what their rules are is a sure way to get them to misbehave.
  2. Don't Consider Them As Individuals/Human This is a subtle one. When you're making rules, make rules based around the personality of someone else you know. Don't think of them as human at all. Treat them like property, like you've most likely read on a site. If your sub is a morning person, insist they stay up til 2am each night. If your sub is a vegetarian, make them only eat meat-based dishes, and if they refuse to eat their dinner, make them go hungry. Your sub will begin nodding off to sleep, especially if they have to get up early in the morning, and then you've got yourself a real disobedient sub.
  3. Have Unrealistic Expectations Insist that after your submissive works 2 shifts you have them cook a three-course meal. And if its less than 3 courses, punish them severely. This will make them want to serve you even more.
  4. Completely Ignore The Way The Human Body Works If they swallow your cum count that as all their meals for the day. If their bottom is welting and they call a safeword to tell you that it's gone beyond good pain, ignore them and continue on (after all all pain is the good kind, right?). Only allow them to sleep 2 hours a night. Insist on a nude slave all the time, ignoring the temperature of the day and their body's natural temperature.
  5. Disrespect Safewords Either completely ignore safewords, or refuse to establish them in the first place. After all, if they really trusted you, they would not need safewords. As a matter of fact, refuse to listen to anything your submissive says. Why listen to a piece of property that's not human. If they try to tell you that the ropes are too tight or that you're whipping their kidneys, take that as them just acting difficult.
  6. Refuse To Listen To Them Remember, submissives are there to be led and directed. They are property and therefore can't think for themselves and they don't really know what they're feeling. Feel free to point this out, and refuse to give them an open forum to discuss ideas, concerns, issues, or anything else. If they still try to present their own thoughts, either dismiss them immediately or punish your submissive, severely for being presumptive. Either way, refuse to hear what they are saying.
  7. Never Praise Them Praise will only make their heads swell. They will begin to think themselves above their stations, and begin to take pride and enjoyment from their activities. You must strictly control this. Their only pleasure must come from you, in measured intervals, of course. Do not tell them they have done well or that they have pleased you, ever. You should always have them wondering if they are pleasing. If you do praise them, you risk them gaining a sense of self worth and then why would they need you?!
  8. Your Pleasure Is The Only Pleasure Do not allow them to do anything that will please them. This is two-fold: while this means taking away all their outside interests (it also includes cutting them off from friends), and it also means that you must monitor what submissive acts they take pleasure in. When you find that a particular submissive act is something that gives them pleasure, take it promptly and replace it by an act they find discomforting. It is best if you can be obvious about this. If it is their pleasure to tie your shoes, tie your own shoes in front of them. And, it's best if this is done with a mocking look on your face.
  9. Never Let Them Talk To Anyone Else You must very strictly monitor all stimulation. Pay special care to keeping them away from other scene folk, as you can't be sure what new ideas others will suggest to your impressionable sub. You don't want your sub to be able to "compare notes" with other submissives, as this has the potential to call your actions into question. To much stimulation might cause them to form their own thoughts. Remember you want to avoid this at all costs.